A Controversial New Beginning (January theme)
by Tracy Barrett
I’m a bit hesitant to post this because people are passionate about the topic and I’m afraid I’ll have to duck. No, the topic isn’t politics. It’s not religion or the Second Amendment or the right of this person to marry that one.
It’s about getting rid of books. And I know that the mere concept of “getting rid of” something as holy as a book will cause many to shudder.
I’m facing a huge new beginning this year. We’re planning to move from the house where we’ve lived for more than twenty years to one in a quieter neighborhood, now that we no longer need to be near my day job or in the zone of the elementary school we wanted our kids to go to. In preparation we’ve been going through decades of stuff, filling our trash cans to overflowing each week and making multiple trips to Goodwill.
Fortunately, we don’t have a lot of storage space, so we haven’t been able to hoard as much as one of us would like, but something we have in abundance is books.
For me, a book on a shelf is a corpse. If it hasn’t been read for decades and probably will never be read again, it might as well no longer exist. I write my books so that they will be read, and I want to honor the authors I love by keeping their writing alive. Rather than putting those books in a box and moving them and putting them on new shelves, never to be opened again, I’m taking them to the library to be sold to someone who will resuscitate them by reading them. (The fact that the sale will benefit the library is another plus.)
Only a few dozen books have gone. Our shelves still hold many that I’ll reread, as well as the ones I use for research and the ones I’ve had autographed at conferences. I’ve also kept a few with specific sentimental value: they remind me of myself at an earlier age or the person who wrote them or the person who gave them to me. “I’ve had it forever” isn’t enough; to me, that equates to keeping a book on life support.
Anne Fadiman divides book-lovers into two camps in her essay “Never Do That to a Book” (in Ex Libris): Platonic lovers, for whom “a book’s physical self was sacrosanct . . . , its form inseparable from its content” and carnal lovers, in which group she includes her family, for whom “a book’s words were holy, but the paper, cloth, cardboard, glue, thread, and ink that contained them were but a mere vessel, and it was no sacrilege to treat them as wantonly as pragmatism and desire dictated. Hard use was a sign not of disrespect but of intimacy.” Count me in, Fadimans.
I'm with you, Tracy...nothing sadder than a shelf of dusty books! Happy moving!ReplyDelete
Thanks, Irene! Now I'm trying to convince my husband that the same holds true for his LP collection!Delete
Yes!! Let books be shared rather than shelved. I'm going through this same operation as I plan to "get rid of" most of my academic books. My plan is to give them to graduate students who will be thrilled to have them. Some of them - many of them - I still have never read. Let them be read! (I ADORE Anne Fadiman's EX LIBRIS, too - it's a book that is def one of my keepers!)ReplyDelete
I had fun giving treasured books to colleagues when I left academe. I leafed through them and was amazed at how much I knew at one time, given the marginal notes I made. I couldn't understand half of them!Delete
Yes, I did the same after my most recent move. It was freeing to know I was passing them on to good homes--and out of my life. Good luck in your move!ReplyDelete
Good way to put it--it is indeed freeing!Delete
I laughed a lot at this because I'm one of those people who in previous years would be shocked....but I have moved a couple of times.... so I understand. My books are my friends....but I'm so glad you are giving them to others in such a thoughtful way :)ReplyDelete
I know what you mean about books being your friends. But sometimes friends drift away too, right?Delete
It's just as tough for me to get rid of records. Yeah--I still listen to records. Did you keep yours?ReplyDelete
My husband took two big boxes of records to a resale store today and came home with a check for $89. Going out to dinner tonight!Delete
I have actually boxed books up for donation, put them in the garage, and brought them back in a few at a time as I walked by the box! I don't have as much trouble getting rid of any other thing,ReplyDelete
Me too, Annie--but the reality of moving day firmed me in my resolve and once I got started, it became easier and easier.Delete